November ushers in not only the start of the holiday
season with Thanksgiving, but also No Shave November, a month-long event
dedicated to raising awareness for prostate cancer by having people refrain
from shaving. However, women are shunned
and labeled as “gross” and “unkempt” for participating.
Women participation is regarded as a joke among the
majority of the population – from my fellow class mates to celebrities. As October came to a close, I found myself
reading more and more Facebook statuses poking fun at women participation in
this event, including “No Shave November.
#proudofwhoiam” and “I’ll be participating in Noshember guiz don’t hate!” What bothered me the most about these
statuses is that females were the ones creating them. Additionally, Will Ferrell, most famously
known for his role in the movie Elf, commented on the event by saying “Girls
who participate in No Shave November will also participate in No D December.”
While I am in no way trying to turn No Shave November
into a feminist cause about the rights of women to do whatever they want with their body
hair, it seems like the true meaning of No Shave November has dwindled down into
nothing more than a competition between men to advertise how much facial hair
they can grow. If I were to participate
in this event, it would be because I want to spread awareness about prostate
and testicular cancer, not because I’m trying to prove a point about the
expectations for women to maintain the status of “beautiful.”
It is important for participants to remember what the
cause is all about – raising awareness for prostate cancer – so that both men
and women feel free to participate without being constrained by social norms
and judgment from their peers.
Samar, I also think that November turned into a competition instead of actual action for prostate cancer. Even my friend admitted that he found out that it was for cancer after he participated. It turned out to be a fun game and that's not bad, but it's not exactly great. On your point of women participating, I somewhat agree less. Yes, it's very great that women also want to raise awareness, but participating in this way is a bit unnecessary. Seeing facial hair on men for the entire month already drove me nuts. I can't imagine if I saw my girlfriends doing that as well even though they only have peach fuzzes and not entire ferrets. It's very gross to see. Men shouldn't make fun of women because of their participation, but women shouldn't participate.
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